Why Try To Fix What Ain’t Broke?

In a world confused of gender and marriage issues, I’m so glad God gave us His book. Jesus makes crystal clear here the realm of marriage, divorce, and gender design. Marriage is between one man and one woman. Divorce is a matter of hard hearts. And gender is a matter of God’s design. The problem with all of these issues is a matter of accepting God’s ways or not accepting them. If we choose to live within the parameters God has designed, things work (with His help). If we choose to cross over the boundaries of God’s design we invite chaos, conflict, and dissension into our lives. These are things that are difficult to deal with, and always rob us of the joy God has intended for us to experience. When we turn our backs on God, He allows the consequences of our rebellion to play themselves out; and that means misery to all. God has a design, and when we follow it, things work as they should. We benefit from living within the God’s design. Why try to fix what ain’t broken?

1 When Jesus had finished saying these things, He left Galilee and went down to the region of Judea east of the Jordan River. 2 Large crowds followed Him there, and He healed their sick.3 Some Pharisees came and tried to trap Him with this question: “Should a man be allowed to divorce his wife for just any reason?”4 “Haven’t you read the Scriptures?” Jesus replied. “They record that from the beginning ‘God made them male and female.’5 And He said, ‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’6 Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.”7 “Then why did Moses say in the law that a man could give his wife a written notice of divorce and send her away?” they asked.8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended. 9 And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery–unless his wife has been unfaithful.”10 Jesus’ disciples then said to Him, “If this is the case, it is better not to marry!”11 “Not everyone can accept this statement,” Jesus said. “Only those whom God helps.12 Some are born as eunuchs, some have been made eunuchs by others, and some choose not to marry for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven. Let anyone accept this who can.” Matthew 19:1-12